Just Change The Song

“And don’t worry about how it looks to others. It doesn’t matter if no one else hears the music or understands it. What matters is that it belongs to you. Some of the most beautiful dances are the ones no one sees—the moments when you close your eyes, sway to your own inner melody, and remember that you are more than your obligations, more than the expectations placed upon you.”

Georgi Kisyov, “Just Change The Song”:

http://georgikisyov.com/2025/08/19/just-change-the-song/

The Buca di Beppo in Claremont is Closing

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The Buca di Beppo in Claremont is closing, along with a host of other locations nationwide.

I learned about this from an Utah source, which was shocked because 100% of the Buca di Beppos in Utah are closing. All two of them.

As of tonight the Claremont location remains open, and I haven’t been able to find a closure date.

Back here, other Southern California Buca di Beppo locations closing include:

  • Brea
  • Carlsbad
  • Claremont
  • Encino
  • Garden Grove
  • Huntington Beach
  • Pasadena
  • Redondo Beach
  • San Diego
  • Santa Clarita
  • Thousand Oaks

Age Assurance Moves to Fast Food at a Chick-fil-A in Kettering, Ohio

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How old are you? The question that’s been asked at bars, pornography sites, and social media sites is now being asked at…a fast food restaurant in Kettering, Ohio.

I’ve talked about age assurance, age verification, and age estimation in a variety of use cases, including:

  • alcohol
  • tobacco
  • firearms
  • cannabis
  • driver’s licenses
  • gambling
  • “mature” adult content
  • car rentals
  • social media access

But what about fast food?

Anti-teen dining policies are nothing new, but this particular one is getting national attention.

The Kettering Chick-fil-A Teen Chaperone Policy

The Chick-fil-A in Kettering, Ohio (which apparently is a franchise and not company owned) posted the following last week:

“With school starting, we wanted to make sure that everyone is aware of our Teen Chaperone Policy. We are grateful for your support and want to make sure Chick-fil-A Kettering is a safe and enjoyable place for everyone! Thank you so much!”

From the Chick-fil-A Kettering Facebook page. (LINK)

Chick-fil-A Kettering Teen Chaperone Policy

To ensure a safe and respectful environment for all guests:

Guests 17 and under must be accompanied by a parent, guardian, or adult chaperone (age 21+) to dine in.

Unaccompanied minors may be asked to leave.

Thank you for helping us keep Chick-fil-Afamily-friendly!

Chick-fil-A Kettering

    For the moment let’s admit that the Chick-fil-A worker (who may or may not be 17 years old themselves) tasked with enforcing the rule will probably just eyeball the person and decide if they’re old enough.

    And let’s also ignore the business ramifications of this franchise’s actions, not only for the franchise location itself, but for all Chick-fil-A restaurants, including those who welcome people of all ages at all times.

    Brick-and-mortar, underage

    But there are some ramifications I want to address now.

    This is definitely a brand new use case unlike the others, both because

    • it affects a brick-and-mortar establishment (not a virtual one), and
    • it affects people under the age of 18 whose ages are difficult to authenticate.

    The last point is a big one I’ve addressed before. People under the age of 18 may not have a driver’s license or any valid government ID that proves their age. And if I’m a kid and walking to the Chick-fil-A, I’m not taking my passport with me.

    In a way that’s precisely the point, and the lack of a government ID may be enough to keep the kids out…except that people over the age of 18 may not have a driver’s license either, and thus may be thrown out unjustly.

    Enforcing a business-only rule without government backing

    In addition, unlike alcohol or cannabis laws, there are very few laws that can be used to enforce this. Yes, there are curfew laws at night, and laws that affect kids during school hours, but this franchise’s regulation affects the establishment 24 hours a day (Sundays excluded, of course).

    So Chick-fil-A Kettering is on its own regarding the enforcement of its new rule.

    Unless Kettering modifies its municipal code to put the rule of law behind this rule and force ALL fast food establishments to enforce it.

    And then what’s next? Enforcement at the Kettering equivalent of James Games?

    Fake Support (this was NOT Intuit)

    Know your business, today’s edition.

    I knew I was asking for trouble when I answered a simple question of whether I used Quickbooks.

    Sure enough, I subsequently received a call from the Quickbooks Support Department.

    After wasting his time for a few minutes, I asked for his Intuit email address.

    He didn’t have one. Just a Quickbooks Support email address.

    So I just blocked a number from the 207 area code. Which is in Maine, the hotbed of Intuit activity.

    Perhaps instead of his Intuit email address, I should have asked him to consent to a biometric scan that matches against Intuit employee records.

    Why Your Attempted Webinar Registration Wasn’t Confirmed

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    Companies ask you to register for webinars with your corporate email address and job title.

    But how many companies NEVER confirm your registration?

    There are at least three reasons why you may never get that confirmation email:

    1. It was marked as spam by your email provider, which reflects poorly on the webinar host. Has the host earned a bad reputation?
    2. The company’s confirmation system is messed up, which reflects poorly on the webinar host. If it takes forever to respond to a simple registration, how long will it take the company to deliver its product or service to paying customers?

    And of course there’s a third reason: the company evaluated your registration and determined you’re not a qualified prospect. Maybe you work for a competitor. Maybe you won’t buy and will instead try to sell—which the company will deduce by my job title of “Product Marketing Consultant.”

    Webinars feed the funnel.

    Disqualification can be legitimate. The purpose of an awareness webinar, like an awareness blog post, is to identify prospects who will become buyers.

    But over-disqualification has its price. If my registration for your webinar is never confirmed because of my “Product Marketing Consultant” job title…well, I guess I can’t talk about your webinar, can I?

    A farmhouse being attacked by iguanas with machine guns, representing third-party risk management threats.
    TPRM on the farm.

    Mitratech allowed me to attend its TPRM-focused “frame, assess, respond, and monitor” webinar…and I talked about it.

    Just a thought.

    Features Sedate. Benefits Awaken. The Personal Version.

    Features sedate. Benefits awaken.

    Attract prospects to your product marketing materials. Turn to John E. Bredehoft for impact: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jbredehoft

    And yes, this is an example of content repurposing from the original: https://bredemarket.com/2025/08/17/features-sedate-benefits-awaken/

    Benefits. This time it’s personal.

    This is Only a Test

    Just trying to figure out what I would do if Meta lowered the handle on Bredemarket and I couldn’t post audio-enhanced conte n via its platforms.

    “For a Meaningful Apocryphal Animation.” Details here.

    Thankfully it’s not auto playing. I don’t want to go back to the 1990s again.

    And this also covers me if my Spotify-hosted podcasting empire is reduced to rubble.