The Former Friend Who Fundamentally Focused Bredemarket’s Instagram Account

Have you ever had a friendship end and felt a shift in your online life? A former friend’s actions completely focused the direction of the Bredemarket Instagram account. This experience reshaped the content I shared, and refocused the audience who received it.

Nap Time.

Those who were reading the Bredemarket Instagram account over a month ago may have caught my disappointment at something I discovered among my followers.

Or more accurately, someONE whom I DIDN’T discover among my followers.

“Someone I respect unsubscribed from the Bredemarket Instagram page. Not sure why or how I turned them away.”

So I “took a nap,” pausing most Bredemarket Instagram activities for a week.

But over time I remembered what Alfred, Lord Tennyson never said: ‘Tis better to have subscribed and unsubscribed than never to have subscribed at all. (I’ll get to the latter group later.)

Reshaping the content

Admittedly some aspects of my Instagram account could alienate some people. As I took my Instagram “nap,” I pondered whether to put the wildebeests out to pasture, and whether to consign the 1980s music to a garbage can filled with cassettes and 8-tracks. After all, the so-called “experts” say that TRENDING AUDIO increases engagement.

Maybe for the “experts”…but not necessarily for Bredemarket.

After all, any perceptive person who is interested in me and my 30 years of identity/biometric experience will realize that I would enjoy songs that are 30 years old…or older.

So I doubled down.

OK, maybe I announced my “waking up” with a Flo Rida / David Guetta song.

But pretty soon I was back to Thomas Dolby, the theme of the Law & Order TV show, and Tina Turner.

The National Bureau of Standards would approve.

Refocusing the audience

After I reshaped my content, I took a long hard look at who was and wasn’t reading it.

And discovered that I was subscribed to hundreds of people on Instagram who, unlike my former friend, NEVER subscribed to me in the first place. And thus never saw a word I wrote. Or the accompanying audio: David Guetta, Thomas Dolby, or “Royalty Free Music Background.”

Did you notice my use of the word “was”?

Like my former friend, I did a lot of unsubscribing myself, reducing the list of people I read by hundreds.

Because, at least on Instagram, I focused my energy.

Focus Your Energy.

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